Lend a Hand

This is the first phrase that I was unable to find an etymology for.  So, if you know of where this phrase comes from, or you have an idea, please comment below.  I like the idea of it coming from handmaiden (helper).

Lend means to borrow.  This highlights a common problem for second language speakers.  I often hear, “Can you borrow me a pencil?”  Native speakers would never say this.  Borrow means to take something with the intention to give it back and lend means to give something with the intention of getting it back.  So, you should consider the subject of the sentence.  In, “Can you borrow me a pencil?” the subject of the sentence is you, not me.  So, the “you” is the one giving the object.  Therefore we must use “lend.”

Lend a hand means to help someone.  Often it is used in a question form to ask someone to help you.  But, you can use it to offer help as well.

Example:  I can’t lift this box.  Can you lend me a hand? Thank you.

It is synonymous to give me a hand.  But be careful.  Giving someone a hand can also mean to applaud (clap) for someone.

Example:  That was an excellent performance.  Let’s give the band a hand. 

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